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Personal Development

“Today I say, we must move forward, not backward, upward not forward, and always twirling, twirling, twirling towards freedom”
(10 points for the source of this quote)

First up today, thank you to everyone who made this a really special birthday. Saturday was awesome, my actual birthday was cool and I had some amazing (and suitably random) presents.

Anyway, the big three oh is done with now, I’m soooo over it.

Time to get on and get things moving…

“I gotta get out of this place, if it’s the last thing I ever do..”

I realised last night, I don’t want to do this job anymore it doesn’t help me towards any parts of the plan for my personal development. I’ll work hard at it for now - but carry on applying for other jobs.

…Ah, that song conjuors up weird memories of being 16 in hospital… 3 days before christmas when they cut my appendix out.

There was a guy opposite me who’d lost all his limbs to smoking 1 by 1 (and still kept smoking!). I had some really good chats with this guy, he knew his number was up but didn’t care. He taught me that life is what you make it, it’s always going to change, throw things in your way and it’s how you choose to deal with them that defines you as a person.

So, life’s thrown me a whole load of curve balls to deal with at once and I’m gonna step up n whack ‘em into the bay. (San Fran stadium analogy, bit random… sorry)

Raaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

23.08.2006 // comments (3)
              

tonight a dj saved my life…

…kinda

Well, he lent me his bodyboard a couple of weeks ago and that took all the stress and trauma out of the week in one wavey session.

Chris Bailey, thank you.

See, I fixed chris’s plug socket and he’s putting loads of stuff in storage… so I helped him out by “looking after” his bodyboard.

Splashing around in the (actually semi-decent) surf for an hour was just what the doctor ordered after a hectic, stressful, nightmare week. I won’t bore you with the details becuase I’m feeling good right now and I don’t wanna lose my buzz man…

Roll on the birthday drinking tomo!!!

NB: If you’re coming to the Opera House tomo, your names are on the “Luke Dubyah Three Ohhh birthday bash guest list” thanks Alice n Co! x

18.08.2006 // comments (3)
              

Birthday

Well it’s not gone at all to plan, so I’m going to have a BBQ on the beach this sat, then head out…

6pm BBQ (Email/txt me for more details)

9pm Metropole (to see Chris Bailey)

11pm Some people off to Hed Kandi at Firestation or…

Tom Novy + Sebastian Ingrosso @ Opera House, being its my B’day they’ve given me an unlimited guestlist and exclusive use of VIP room, so hit me back if you want to come!

2/3am Dusk till Dawn for Electric Playground

5am Naked racing at the beach…

ciao for now!

16.08.2006 // comments (2)
              

The Tree of Life

I’ve been considering what to write about this experiment for some time now, I guess I need to start with a few disclaimers:

DISCLAIMERS

1) This is my honest opinion, based on the knowledge I have of psychology, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Macro Body Language (aka “tells”), Homeopathy, Cold Reading and Philosophy.

2) I approached this experiment with an open mind, as I believe there are things in the world we don’t fully understand or control.

3) I have no medical training, or qualifications… unless you count a lapsed emergency first aider at work certificate!

So, what is “The Tree of Life“? (seems only fair to link to them)

Well, it’s basically an alternative therapist in Southampton who sends electric currents through acupuncture points in your body to determine what treatments you need to make you feel 100%.

I know a few people who have been and swear by it’s benefits to make you feel alive and well, I’d not been feeling quite myself and agreed to go as an experiment.

How does it “work”? (note use of the quote marks…)

You grasp one node in your hand, they touch you with the other at various acu-puncture points on the hands and feet to determine what treatment you need, you pays your money and take home some drops to be taken in a litre of water each day to cure these things… repeat until all layers of your onion (I got a bit lost in this explanation) are healed. (Parasites/infections/imbalances etc)

How does it work? (note lack of quote marks!)

Clever use of psychology to re-inforce what the treament will do, they take details about your medical condition using tickboxes - but - don’t read it till after they’ve zapped you with the prodding wand thing.

Question from believers: How do they manage to find out the same symptoms as I wrote down then?

I have 2 theories here, the truth may lie in some combination of them…

1) Lie Detectors measure subtle changes in electrical conductivity of the body through stress… so as she goes around saying “now I’m testing your neck area…” if you had a condition there, you’d now be thinking about it, so your conductivity would alter the reading.

2) Cold Reading/Macro Body Language, think how “psychics” work on vague statements and focus in until you’re conviced they are psychic - once I considered this (half way through) I adopted a poker face… mysteriously the readings got less accurate…

After they’ve tested you and found what treatments will balance out these problems, they prescribe a number of drops to be taken in water. I’m pretty sure these are just water or some harmless herb… the actual benefit comes in 2 ways:

1) You’re drinking 1 litre of pure water everyday, thereby probably drinking properly where most of us do not.

2) The placebo effect of taking drops every day in that water.

so in summary…

CONCLUSION
well, I’ll be honest, I think it’s completely and utterly useless.

I will add though that I DID feel better after taking the drops for a couple of weeks, however I think this was partly due to the re-hydrating effects of monitoring my water intake everyday combined with the small part of me that wanted to believe in miracle cures… but mainly that I had decided to sort a lot of things out in my life about this time; I finally got back into the real world of work, I stopped going out so much and was eating well.

Futher to this, I’d like to add that the practitioner was very skilled in using NLP and psychology techniques to re-inforce all the science she claimed to be using.

If I threw a crazy idea at you straight away you wouldn’t believe it, right? (well some of you may… but that’s a whole other story!)

Now if I introduced some of a crazy idea, then gave you an anecdote that you could relate to that bridges the gap… and then told you the idea, you’d be more likely to believe me.

An example of me doing this recently:

a) The Idea straight off:

Scientists have proven Alien life existed on mars. - rubbish you’d say?

b) The Idea, using grounding and re-inforcement techniques:

You heard about that meteor which contained microbe’s from Mars? (pause to make sure the target has heard of this factual news story) You know, proving that simple-celled alien life does exist (stretch the idea a bit further)… well they’ve found more evidence of simple life-forms on the recent mars rover expedition.

Not my best example but you hopefully get an idea of what I’m on about!

Final food for though, James Randi (click for earlier post), still hasn’t paid out on its 1 million dollar challenge for someone who proves homeopathy works…

14.08.2006 // 1 comment
              

today I feel lop-sided

For a number of reasons.

1) Drinking too much last night for Chris’s birthday.

2) A killer ulcer in my mouth (mainly due to working too much n missing sleep)

3) Friends.

Are you sitting comfortably? Then I’ll begin.

Why are friends making me feel lop-sided you ask???

Well, thank to the marvel of the inter-super-web-way most of my friends know what I’m up to by reading here (like you are, right now).

So, when I make a few phone calls to catch up with old friends, or people I haven’t spoken to in a while the conversations (today anyway) all went a bit like this:

“hello?”

hello it’s Luke

“hi luke, how are you!?”

I’m well thanks, been working quite hard…

“yeah so I read”

Ah, um ok, how are you? What’ve you been up to?

“hergen bergen schmergen”

oh really? Cool, I did {hergen bergen schmergen} a couple of weeks ago.

“yeah I know, I saw it on your blog”

ah ok, um… how’s XYZ?

“great thanks… hergen bergen schmergen etc… so I saw you {played at tribal/got a job/ate a cookie} the other day, how was it?”

{good/bad/ugly}

etc…

It’s freakin me out!!! There are people I’ve not spoken too for ages (6 months in one case) who feel like they’re still in touch because they’ve read this blog… but I feel rude, becuase I haven’t got a frikin’ clue what they’ve been up to!

So please, leave comments… give me a ring… drop by and say hello… or get your own blog!

…back to fixing the hangover now, time for food me thinks…

12.08.2006 // no comments
              

The Easy Life - pt2

(First up, I’m tired, so if this is full of typo’s n stuff… tough)

So… life has very few certainties… one of them is that life continually changes n evolves.

I think I need to start applying for jobs elsewhere, there’s an important lesson in life I’m reminded of here:

Choose your battles wisely.

Sometimes the only way to win is to not fight… or fight for a bit, whilst looking for a new battle perhaps? Although I’m on a temp contract, where I’m free till 12 mon-thu, so it wouldn’t be too bad… not exactly ideal to be headed to my 3rd job in as many months?

Job 1 - always planned as a stepping stone, to get me back into working… had planned to do it for at least 6 months to broaden my CV… worked there about 5 weeks…

Job 2 - seemingly offering a good chance to further develop my coaching/training… albeit in a slightly ropey company… in a pretty crappy office…

Job 3 - third time lucky???

Am I just being too picky? Or maybe bigheaded?

I’m an intelligent, presentable, adaptable, knowledgeable, dependable chap… I CAN do better than this.

11.08.2006 // no comments
              
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